The Spirit of Barbara! Catch It!

I sat next to Barbara on a flight yesterday. We chatted and laughed for about an hour on the flight from Hartford to Washington DC. Barbara was probably old enough to be my mother. We laughed at the crazies in the airport. We laughed at all the people annoyed about our delay. We laughed about the economy. We laughed about lazy people we have (or in her case, still) work with. We laughed about her husband leaving his glasses home (he was sitting a couple of rows back). We laughed about any topic that popped up.

Towards the end of the conversation I asked Barbara if she had kids. She said she had two; now only has one. She shared that her son was killed in an accident at twenty-one years old. We continued talking and laughing. I was amazed and commented.

Then she said to me, you can let the experience kill you too; or make you stronger. We continued to laugh.

What's eating at you these days? What's upsetting or worrying to you. Have you taken some time to laugh? Go do it. There's enough unhappy people in the world; (Quick aside: now it seems that most of them live in Portland, OR.) But there's one person who continues to laugh - despite one of the worst things that can happen to a mother.

So today I say Catch the Spirit of Barbara and go create some laughter.